Why are you so upset? You know you’re not allowed to be a victim! You cannot be upset and truthfully let your true self out in the midst of angry emotions.
There are powerful ways to let stress out.
Allow yourself to scream!
😱 *blood curdling scream*
Before you catch an assault charge or give yourself a heart attack, SCREAM! I literally play music that’s aggressive or at least upbeat, so that I can release. Singing along, screaming along—pleasantly or not—I do whatever what works. Tears and all, I conclusively feel accomplished and turns out, it was tons of fun! #ScreamTherapy
Be assertive and take no shxt.
Face it, this world is not bubbles, giggles and unicorn glitter. Do not overdo it, but it’s ok to be confrontational, respectfully. Looking over people only gets me so far personally. Honestly depending on my mood depends on how I intend to spare these people that enjoy going overboard with “disrespect to the individual”. Understand that there should be limits between what “we” discuss and don’t, privately and publicly. Coworkers are the worst, because it feels as if you have to deal with bs since you’re actually getting paid. If it is unethical or irrelevant to what’s at hand, it should be squashed.
Understand you and what you deserve. If you take responsibility for your happiness and let go of the negativity in your life at the moment, things will become clearer and start to become more manageable.
Pray and Let Go!
We must not dwell..for it detriments our faith if we allow our hope to be diminished...#randomthought
Prayer is the best thing you can do. Build yourself to the point where you find yourself praying only once. Do not dwell. Pray and watch the Lord All Mighty work!! #PrayerChangesThings
My household will serve the Lord, once they leave my nest & gain their own understanding—& convert—that is up to them. My love will never alter in size nor expire. As long as they live with me, there will be my rules.
Consistency is key. Once I learned this by reading scriptures my lifestyle improved. I enjoyed better days at work, home with and without family. It has truly saved my life as well as others.
Stand firm in what you believe in. There is no shame in blessings given to us. I suggest reading at least 1 daily or whenever you have time. Make time to set a schedule. I enjoy daily after work sitting in my bathroom reading the Bible. I have candles set up along with incense sticks, also. Do what you have to do in order to meditate on His word.
I am a Queen, whether you believe it or not. Just like my brother is a King. We are people who have total control over emotionally, physically, and mentally interactions in society (for the most part). Who we date, befriend, marry, fight, steal from, betray, overly trust, disrespect, overcrowd, miss, lose, gain, destress, stress, anxiety— I could go on.
This is all happening internally; but we still have to control what we expose externally. As Queens, we cannot be victims: were not allowed to in society. Below is a list of things I’ve thought of as well as seen on Pinterest many times before. Now I want to jot them down as they develop in my train of 💭 thoughts . Bare with me please.
I love myself. I have everything I need, in God I trust to succeed. I must stay focused. It’s ok to be a powerful, strong woman. I am beautiful as I am. I accept who I am today. I am confident. I deserve the absolute best. I better myself everyday. I feel unstoppable. I am unstoppable! I am valuable. I feel valued in the work place and family life. No one is like me. -Queen
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When people grow anger and explode, their raw, hurtful but true feelings surface. At least this what I believe. I understand that people also say things they do not mean in anger as well. You have to know the person’s personality to help depict the difference. It’s difficult to live with a person who’s holding in their anxiety. Stress builds up into a mountain under their shoulder blades, forcing their shoulders upward. The tension inside their body makes them suffer. Imagine adding work and family as well! I always try to relate and understand an individual’s perspective when conversing.
[…] I tried so hard, […] It ain’t my fault ’cause I try to get away, but trouble follows me […].
Prayer is the only thing that’s helping me. I appreciate my supporters, too. Say a prayer for my strength and wisdom as I travel on this journey to where the Lord wants me.
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth comes out.
The truth will always set you free spiritually , I’ve always believed this. How could a soul live for so long off of guilt, backstabbing, and anything else that relates to people being arrogant, flamboyant, conniving and condescending?!?
These type of people will not grow as long as they are not happy with themselves. It’s so sad how people really believe that they are better than others! How foolish to think this. This is my opinion. Thank you for reading. Please like, comment and share. ❤ Adori
Hello PIINK Squad! After a long day of retail I’m just waking up after returning home from work at 7:35pm (Looking at my phone’s time, it’s 1:34am). I was scheduled off at 6 and worked my butt until 7:14pm! Gosh I can’t believe I did that. Lines were busy, short staffed, and stress wanted to arise. I am trying to hang in there before leaving. I’m losing interest in retail altogether.
I’m debating cleaning, crocheting and spending time in my puppy’s room…. (sigh) ….I’ll just lay back down. 😴😴 I’m trying to lay a certain way so that the stiffness in my neck won’t totally hurt.
I’ll be up thinking about adding another category to the list of Adori’s topics! Something I think you all will 😉 enjoy.
Now that I’m finally comfortable in bed, I don’t feel as drowsy! So much for this amazing warm spot in the bed. Why have the covers over my head with a warm spot if i can’t hibernate? Oh well. I have you guys. Stay tuned for the next post.
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